If you're lucky, there is a magic moment in your life (it could last a day or two years) when you realize you have enough - enough work, enough food, enough house, enough meaningful relationships - to make you happy. It is essential to recognize this when it occurs and think very carefully about the best way to proceed. You might just decide that the sacrifices necessary to take it to the next level, as it were, to remain in the current of bigger, better, faster, are not worth it. Say 'enough is enough' and focus your energy on keeping and enjoying the things you have that you know make you happy. Resist the upgrade if it doesn't feel entirely right. That upgrade will cost you in one way or another and it's tricky to impossible to go back to your 'enough state' once you leave it behind.